I have been creating my own Christmas Cards since 2002. I have always been moved by black and white photography and this seemed a perfect vehicle to combine my writing and these remarkable photos that travel time. You will see a chronological collection of the these cards below, along with a photo gallery of the black and whites used.
Take time this season
to listen to the melody
of a child’s laughter…
hear the holidays minted
in the black and white stories
of your childhood…
taste the tradition passed thru
the hands of generations…
know the warmth of family and
of friends who are family…
and – above all –
for this – or any season –
always believe…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2002
A winter's s snow glistens
in the new day’s frost…
Footmarks mingle with hoof prints
cracking tracks in the iced fields…
The incense that is
burning wood hovers…
cardinal and crow
harmonize a season’s song…
and a family gathers
to holiday another memory…
Unwrap the gift
of family…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2003
There is a door behind which
we discover a room brimming with
cherished stories…
favorite photographs…
and the vibrant
sweet smells of the season…
As we swing open this door
we resurrect all that is our holidays
and breathe life back into
our family traditions
This season, prop that door open
a little longer -
and let the love flood in…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2004
(for Evan Garack Joseph)
The sturdy hands of his great grandfathers
release lineage’s arrow.
With gentle strength they launch him toward
a century we can only imagine.
The child of my child
cannot surmise the destiny he has already fulfilled.
What is the weight of the name he will carry -
The immensity of hope he’ll clutch in his tiny fingers?
Growing together
parent and boy -
grandparent and dream recognized.
All the sacred feminine
with beauty and grace in abundance
will fuel his blood
like a river seeks its ocean.
The son of my son
will bear the burden of stewardship.
A choice, not his, just fortune’s.
The boy of my boy
will cherish laughter while he somersaults through childhood
and fills his parents’ hearts to overflowing .
The heir of my heir
will inherit the elegance and warmth
of his grandmothers.
He will learn from
the halo of the moon -
and fire on the sun
He will grow on the prayers of his ancestors.
Their spirits will guide him.
an unexplained, yet welcome, beacon …
The child of my child
will marry our wishes and our imaginings -
a life born
a miracle witnessed
a love made real…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2004
Santa’s figure
carved to minute detail
was Grandpa’s offering -
his beard fluffed by gentle, skilled hands.
Grandma quilts the room
warm in color…alive with ‘long ago’
Hers will drape the love seat…redundantly.
Dad’s best-loved ornament
commands its place of honor
completing the annual Douglas Fir ceremony.
While the scent of Mom’s memorable meal
chases through the decorated house.
At the centerpiece,
you take fire to wick
and a candle lights the holiday world…
and that flame flickers across
his newly born face -
reflecting in eyes
the width of seas…
Tis’ the lore of December -
the tradition of family -
the blessings of the season…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2005
As the caroling fades to frozen echoes,
the fire’s embers wither
and the very last of family
heelprints the snowy blanket
away from our homes.
We will seek to make this moment endure.
It seems an unspoken mission.
How do we keep this feeling close
for more than these few frenetic weeks?
For the sharing strengthens us,
and the traditions unearth
the treasure of the season.
Holidays alive,
unbent by the scuttle,
resurrected in a child’s bliss
that pauses us for this instant.
And we cleanse our memories in times ‘ago’
when a wishing star shone thru our windows
and our limitless imagination
gave wings to angels
and flight to reindeer.
We yearn to hold those moments close again
and again -
It is the innocence of belief
and the sanctuary of faith
that we yearn to preserve
for more than a fleeting December.
As you gather to warm yourselves
by the fading cinders,
hold open your hearts
to the perpetual calling
of this season.
Capture that feeling
and carry it through your year…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2006
It was
the whirring of a toy train
or a tattered rag doll -
It was
a father’s treetop star
or a mother’s lilting carol -
It was
the candied skin of an apple
or the perfume of the festooned pine…
Each year this holiday
rouses quieted moments
with its singular caress…
This season
reach out for those memories
and allow them to touch your heart.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2007
It is the near charcoal sky of an imminent snowfall.
It is the ornate detail of a simple snowflake.
It is the snap of firewood from a crackling hearth.
It is the memories of holidays ago triggered by
a faint scent.
It is the treasured ornament that hangs,
as if museum piece.
It is the effortless recall of the season’s lyrics.
It is the checkerboard of lights
that necklace the garlanded houses.
It is the hushed din of a gathered family.
It is the clasping hands of a quietly offered prayer prior to feast.
It is the recurrence of tradition that swathes you in nostalgia.
It is in these moments
where celebration commemorates -
where holiday rejoices -
where soul renews -
It is this season’s renaissance of spirit
that restores faith -
that rekindles mood -
that resurrects…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2008
The pyramidal evergreen
its branches bejeweled and weighty
embraces tinsel in hurried clumps
and an eclectic collection of bulbs…
A faded angel with its fir spine
sets in ornamental silence high above
the countless Claus’s -
the Radko relics -
and the hand-made stuff of children…
Stars, in wait, dreaming of the summit
sentenced to position by dull wire hook…
Knick-knacks held captive
in garland and festoon…
Ribbons of lights glimmer
as dots on the holiday landscape
and to each of us – on our tradition tree
there hangs a treasure
that is a reflection -
a moment’s recollection
that brings us home…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2009
Tradition stares back
from the skinny tree and fat Santas
scenes swathed in deep red melancholia
and ever green memoirs.
Rituals arrive on the same winds
that breeze the russet leaves into momentary corners
and swirl the recognizable chill of a readying winter.
Carols noel themselves familiar
and lyrics trip from your tongue
as committed memories learned by heart.
As convention dictates,
you still count the days
‘til the shining wrap and radiant ribbon
are discarded as ceremonial debris
Whether the gifts bestowed meet
an approving nod or subtle disregard
matters not.
It is the repetition of custom,
the slender tree and thickset Clauses,
the gathering…the sharing…the laughing…the minting…
These are the sacraments of December.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2010
We choose white lights,
for you already bestow the color
and the ornaments unique
you convey with elegance -
suspended as if on canvas…
We choose an unlit, ornate star…
for you provide its sun
and elevate it to its zenith
as you raise us all - an effortless tide.
We choose modest trim
for you are the intricate garland -
the ribbon that binds us.
There is so much history draped
on the slender forever green,
…the wizard swing
…a renaissance born from a child’s mistake
…a calendar collection in ceramic and glass
…and always - a family
stage by stage
memory by memory…
I choose you to celebrate
for you are the perfect gift -
the season – always…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2011
As match flashes to holiday wick -
in the shimmering wisps of flame -
we listen to the noiselessness that burns…
as thoughts free-fall -
and traditions revive…
We rouse the ritual routines of customs
- novel - and not so…
What is Christmas if not
the stillness of times gone by -
the character of now -
the panorama of the potential…
Amidst the raven curls of smoke
our musings turn to holidays past -
We recall the uncomplicated faith of children
and their unbending trust in the magic of December…
What is Christmas if not
the presents of family and friends
the ceaseless wonder of childhood
and the simple peace of seasons ago...
Wayne M. Joseph © 2012
The 1946 Detroit dawn
worked the horizon into morning.
The frost confused November for deep January.
J. L. Hudsons’ twenty-five stories
fashioned shadows
upon saucer-eyed children and
families restored.
Now in the uniform of fedora and wool,
a father’s overstuffed shoulders
became child-seat..
Tradition paraded by…
on the streets he had freedomed
from the sacrifices he made
for a world twice at war…
Tradition carnivaled by…
balloons of cartoons -
pom-pommed contraptions -
and a fat man in crimson as caboose..
On this Thursday, the cobbled bricks of Woodward Avenue
became universal Main Street.
Under a country’s flag one-half-acre grand
this boulevard pageant commenced the holidays.
This avenue procession,
staged for re-huddled masses,
renewed ritual…
On that Thursday, tradition passed by…
and was to be handed down
from a reconnected father
to a child with a vista of all the world-
and on to a family giving thanks…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2013
Angels We Have Heard On High
sweetly sounds as perfect background.
Resurrected from its undusted world,
the storied box of assorted baubles
awaits rediscovery…
Just strong enough wires dangle
ornaments to their pine host -
The evergreen bough bends ever slightly
accepting its glass treasures…
Each knickknack provides its own narrative -
'A pre-school clay handprint once mistaken for coaster…'
'The generations of comic heroes and children's faces…'
'The yarn star your sister made...'
Year by year, they assume their eminent stature
amid the ribbon and the dated Rockwells
and the back-of-the-tree exiles…
It is a Christmas tree of life -
adorned in tribute
teeming in memory -
rooted in custom…
Once bejewled, the tradition is alive anew…
You sense the fragrance of your ancestors
and their simple lesson to trust in ritual.
It is their bridge that will direct you
to where holiday finds a home…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2014
(for Samantha Joseph Dick)
I catch a glimpse of her instinctual stare
absorbing wide-eyed the excited lights and
splashes of painted ribbons…
Five months new – not yet brown or hazel –
those saucered eyes process the
bloom of holiday for the first time…
Nuzzled against my shoulder, we tour the festival of rooms
where the glint and glitter spellbind…
aromas of balsam and cinnamon flood her senses.
The pewter rocking horse elicits a coo -
Soapstone Santas amaze…
Her forever stocking with hand-stitched name
crowds the standing-room-only mantle…
and a deliberate pause under the mistletoe
justifies my constant kisses…
Her slow blink signals approaching sleep–
I whisper my wish for a splendid life -
Snoozing in the cradle of my arms
I celebrate the miracle of you…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2015
Hands entwined
Heads bowed
The intoned prayer
blesses the absent -
beseeches health of mind and body –
communions good will -
In unison, family and guests, amen…
In unison, aromas rush the senses…
Hand-written recipes -
faded yet prized -
passed down and
passed around.
The clatter of spoon to bowl -
ancestral bouquets rise up from
platters brimming -
Impromptu toasts
of opaque cabernet
praise each gathered face –
And laughter rackets the holiday table -
with stories, and stories,
and stories…
as one truth reveals itself -
Time spent in tradition
is time well spent…
Wayne M. Joseph © 2016
A child’s wonder never leaves your heart.
A blurred memoir of Decembers gone, mark time like a metronome –
the rhythm of life - the cadence of years.
Customs assemble memories -
construct nostalgia.
The young listen to the voices longstanding
and to their words - the echoes of tradition.
The treasure that rises in aromas becomes their Christmas perfume.
They absorb the symbols of a gathering family.
They note the presents of presence.
In every inch of love embraced -
In every toast proclaimed -
all those beaming faces
learn at your hand.
In each anecdote –even folklore - that you share
you build holiday for them.
In return, each season, as you practice ritual
you add chapters to the writing of
their story of you.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2017
His was an Al Kaline baseball mitt by Wilson. Asked for, yet unexpected. A boyhood hero’s name burned into the stiff leather and forever etched on a young boy’s stunned heart. Sixty years on and he still recalls the joyous chill ascend and widen and lift him off the floor that December 25th morn. A foot of gray black snow lined the concrete outside. Temperatures wintered away his chance for a first catch. And tossing a hardball inside never made it past the ‘No’ in his parents’ eyes. So he would prep the thirsty cowhide instead. The Wesson oil kneaded into the absorbing skin. He twined a scuffed Rawlings ball deep into its pocket and swaddled the glove in an old towel. It would be his teddy bear that evening.
What was in your letter to Santa?
With a misspelled “Pleaze” did you ask for a pinball machine, or a Big Wheel or a model plane made of balsa and glued with Elmer’s?
With an “I’ve been good” in your favorite red crayon,
did you request a Cinderella Dress or an Easy Bake Oven or that life-like doll wrapped in cellophane?
What made those presents indelible, was that hoping actually paid off.
Hope is a powerful thing.
Like the belief in the magic of a red-nosed flyer or the wonder of a North Pole elf.
Hope is an elevating thing.
The anticipation …then realization.
And its reward is a child’s dream recognized.
And the gift giver’s full heart
knowing it’s not the size nor cost
but the miracle you deliver when you play Santa.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2018
We will croon a lilting carol.
We know them all. By heart.
Joy to the World…et cetera.
We will procure a peck of pretty presents and pyramid them
in perpendicular piles ‘round the perfect pine.
We will honor ancestry in food and fable and folderol.
We will revere these festive moments as the finest of days.
Yet we know there is even more stuff that illustrates the soul of Christmas.
That stuff is Love -
the intimacy people share –
a generosity of spirit –
a language of tenderness.
That stuff is Kindness -
the practice of goodwill -
the smallest acts that teach –
voluminous lessons that endure.
That stuff is Time -
the commodity of commodities –
how we spend it creates its value –
each second sharing it, is its own gift -
Joy to the World…indeed.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2019
A menace interrupted the world. Sacrifice was expected of our nation. A common enemy demanded that. A trio of women who witnessed the worst, never questioned their responsibility. They met the moment. Their resolve would define the moment. That’s how a generation got its name.
It was Christmas, 1944.
Georgia, a seamstress for the war effort, lit candles in the stone church built by immigrants. At Ford, Sylvia liaisoned tank parts to the front-lines. That December, her husband endured the Battle of the Bulge that would help extinguish the Nazi plague. A thirteen-year-old Vivian, in her Goodwill dress, was impervious to her poverty. Awash in the lyrics of “I’ll Be Home for Christmas” she pined for her corps of brothers overseas. The outcome of WWII was as uncertain as the arrival of the next letter from the front. Information was treasure. Information was piecemeal. They relied on the ‘read all about it’ newspapers, the weeks-old newsreels, Edward R. Murrow’s radio reports from London or the reassuring, unifying voice of the “Fireside” President. Steadfast and tenacious, these women exampled the united state of America.
On every communiqué throughout their days, this feminine trinity of strength, this communion of motherhood, would share the same valediction, an all-embracing farewell- “All Our Love”.
Whatever the occasion, tragedy, celebration, those three words in near identical cursive inked onto the page and enfolded you in their prayers. Like a nine-day novena, a morning rosary or their silent pleas for your safety and success -
“All Our Love”
It applies to every season. Every day in every season. Every random act of kindness. Every step on every rung. Every unwelcome moment. Every historic second of everyone’s history. Every Adeste Fidelis. -
“All Our Love”
This is Christmas, 2020.
Undeniably a year for the archives. As a nation, we are again asked to sacrifice. Information moves too hastily now. So does misinformation. What and whom to believe is a question with numberless answers and imperfect choices.
We choose to discard division – to dismiss hatred - to dismantle intolerance.
We choose to pray for harmony – to pray for well-being – to pray for pacem et terra.
We choose a wish authored by a hallowed triumvirate of mother’s love -
“All Our Love”
Wayne M. Joseph © 2020
Christmas and Yesterday
do entwine
in traditions cultural and
legends begun.
In handed-down treasures.
In a birth Divine.
There's a Druid's tale that
Mistletoe does combine
healing powers, fertility and fortunes well done.
A Christmas kiss and Yesterday
do entwine.
Credit Francis of Assisi for
the Nativity design.
Holy Family and Three Magi adoring God's son.
Venite Adoremus Dominum
to a birth Divine.
Ornaments were conceived on
the Royal Family's pine.
Outdoor Lights first encircled the lab of Thomas Edison.
Christmas and time-honored rituals do entwine.
A gathering of kith and kin. An abundant feast with notable wine. In season, the caroling voices raised as one.
Gloria In Excelsis Deo
to a birth Divine.
We measure time by holidays as
a nostalgic sign
in traditions cultural
and legends spun.
Christmas and Yesterday
do entwine
In Love. In Family. In a birth Divine.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2021
The message we master from this holiday
The giving and sharing exemplifies good will
By embracing the season's mood every day
We measure blessings by the hearts we fill
The giving and sharing exemplifies good will
The fruit of a family reborn
in ancestral food
We measure blessings by the hearts we fill
In the elevating joy of a
gathering brood
The fruit of a family reborn
in ancestral food
The shadows of our forefathers alive and well
In the elevating joy of a
gathering brood
The traditions continue in the stories we tell
The shadows of our forefathers alive and well
These moments exist by the
love and sacrifice
The traditions continue in the stories we tell
In the belief and the hope
for paradise.
These moments exist by the
love and sacrifice
By embracing the season's mood every day
In the belief and the hope
for paradise.
The message we master from
this holiday
Wayne M. Joseph © 2022
Christmas may be a day of feasting, or of prayer, but always, it will be a day of remembrance - a day in which we think of everything we have ever loved.
- Augusta E. Rundel
When you spent time with
Joan Ryan,
you would feel your spirit lifted.
Authentically sophisticated,
she was the comfort tree
you could sit under to perpetually fill your cup.
This December begins our reminiscence,
and the hard truth that her face
is etched evermore,
not everlasting.
We are awash in
the memory of her style -
the elegance of her homes -
the eminence of her career -
the depth of her character -
and her unending generosity.
Truth be told, her favorite memories of this time of year
were the two decades as the backstage Mrs Claus
to her husband’s iconic Santa in Detroit’s Thanksgiving Parade.
Always, it was her overriding kindness that
gave us thanks -
presented us Christmas -
made new our years.
It is said that Christmas is the day that holds all time together.
At this season, we celebrate the transforming horizons of life.
We are human because of our hearts
and the souls that fill our hearts.
Hers was such a soul.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2023
"May you never be too grown up to search the skies on Christmas Eve" - Unknown
Nostalgia is no small thing. It helps us understand where we come from by connecting today and yesterday. Reminiscing reunites us across time and miles. Nostalgia cuts across age spans. The reflection of past memories help construct our self-identity.
To recollect keeps us grounded.
It evokes a sense of belonging.
Nostalgia is bittersweet. Bitter because the past is irretrievable. Sweet because your memory wraps you in a simpler time when someone loved you, simply.
Each year, Christmas re-appears as a romantic link to our personal past.
In evocative storyboards, the holidays present a re-living documentary of who we are. A yuletide history learned in childhood and colored by traditions of heritage.
All signs point to remembering.
An autobiography of bygone.
Holiday rituals are translated from a great grandmother’s recipe. Or a seven-year old’s handmade ornament. Or watching the same movie each year as a cultural mile-marker. Or retelling tales of those souls still loved, yet no more.
Nothing thrills like the hope of a holiday. Christmas rings beyond the church bells and exuberant carols. Christmas lights beyond the decorated pines or the glimmer in a child’s eyes surrounded by the glorious mess of wrapping paper.
Holiday gifts weave a spell of nostalgia.
They re-trace moments. Their stories intoned and intact.
Some gifts perfectly targeted - lifted from the crayon scribble of a North Pole letter.
Some gifts impulsively extravagant – because you could.
And some, a thankful blessing for holidays’ true gifts…
Love and time.
Wayne M. Joseph © 2024
Actress Sally Phipps - Christmas, 1927